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  • I wish people would stay away from the "religious" argument. There is plenty of other stuff to say. Like the lifestyle being bad unhealthy and bad for families. The 5000 years of traditional man+woman marriages around the world. The historical fight for it in America itself. The slippery slope issue. The list goes on and on without it ever being a religious issue.

    Besides, most of the protesters that show up with religious signs for or against couldn't even tell you where Leviticus is found in the Bible. I

    • Isn't the "unhealthiness" of the "lifestyle" related to promiscuity? Do you really think that allowing gays to marry would increase promiscuity? If so, I'd like to hear how you work that out.

      • The fight is about normalizing the homosexual lifestyle, when it is not a normal lifestyle.

        50% of homosexual men over the age of 30, and 75% of homosexual men over the age of forty, experienced no relationships that lasted more than one year. Source: M. T. Saghir and E. Robins, Male and Female Homosexuality: A Comprehensive Investigation (Baltimore: Williams Wilkins, 1973), pp. 56-57.

        Two homosexual icons, Marshall Kirk and Hunter Madsen, wrote this about male homosexuality: " gay men aren't very good

        • So if I'm part of any group that has a tendency toward promiscuity I can't marry? Or does that only apply if I'm part of the group that you consider "abnormal"? Weren't eastern europeans considered abnormal? African americans? Or for that matter, anyone with a darkish hue?

          If you consider homosexuality abnormal that's your business, I couldn't care less. When you use your belief to tell other people what to do and who to love, that's a different matter. Why should you even care?

          I realize it's pointless t

          • I am not telling anyone what to do or who to love. I am just stating that I (and the majority of Americans) do not consider homosexuality a normal lifestyle. I stop short in telling them to stop. If they want to risk their health then that is up to them. I even stop short of creating a constitutional amendment. There are better ways to protect marriage.

            You arguments against people groups being abnormal is inane. Those people groups do not have inherent health risks associated with them. The color of some

            • What makes it right for them to force their beliefs on me when 5000 years of marriage has always been traditionally defended here (for the last 200 or so) and around the world as one man and one woman?

              A) Nobody's forcing their beliefs on you. Nobody's hand-cuffed you to another man, dragged you down to the county clerk and demanded you get a marriage license. By declaring that before the eyes of the law, only a man and a woman can have a legal union you are forcing your beliefs on other people. Marriage, legal marriage, the decision between yourself and your spouse to be a single entity before the eyes of the law and has many benefits and perks associated with it. The important thing is that two people want to live life together, own property together, share their income and posessions and maybe even raise some kids together. Legally and without unnecessary complications. The man & woman thing is really incidental.

              B) Tradition is a cop out. If we simply followed tradition we'd all be dragging around stone sledges and paying tax to the king. We certainly wouldn't be having an argument on the Internet. :) Things change. "That's the way its always been" is a really lame reason to hang on to something.

              C) I provide you with the homework problem of applying your rationales to interracial marriage. Its 1950. Marriage has always been traditionally defended here (for the last 150 years so so) as one man and one woman of the same race. Consider.

              • Nobody's forcing their beliefs on you. .... By declaring that before the eyes of the law, only a man and a woman can have a legal union you are forcing your beliefs on other people.

                Holy Cognitive Dissonance, Batman!

                  • So if he likes a law that defines marriage as between a man and a woman, he's forcing his beliefs on other people, but if someone else likes a law that defines marriage as between two people regardless of gender, that other person is not forcing his beliefs on the first person?

                    I fail to see how that's not a contradiction.

                    Then again, surely the purpose of law itself is to enforce a set of beliefs.

                    • Then again, surely the purpose of law itself is to enforce a set of beliefs.

                      Good point. So the question really comes down to: where is the line drawn? When do we as a society say "That is immoral?". And if we continue to vacilate on the moral lines, "Where does it stop?".

                    • Yes, legalizing same-sex marriage is forcing beliefs on other people in the same way that the fourteenth ammendment is forcing beliefs on other people. That is, all law is forcing your beliefs on someone at some point, even if that law is about freedom. I hope we all knew this already.

                      While its good to remember that all law is, in some way, enforcing belief, its about as interesting in the context of this discussion as having a physics argument and someone chiming in, "but you can never really prove anyt

                    • My hope is that people will stop bringing up the tired old pseudojustification "don't force your beliefs on me". It may be amazingly obvious to you and to me that that's exactly what law is, but as long as people whine and cry about how their rights are superior to those of everyone else, I reserve the right to tell them that their arguments are stupid and completely unconnected to reality.

                      Then again, I can be a real jerk sometimes. :)

              • Tradition is a cop out

                It's a cop out for saying we shouldn't change, but it's a damn good reason for saying we should only make those changes legally and deliberately, collectively, instead of by fiat of a few (unless those few happen to be supreme court justices :-).
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