To illustrate: Saturday. I woke up at 4:00 am to my pager going off. I solved the problem, but my one year old daughter woke up, so I had to try to get her back to sleep. As I was putting her to bed at 6:15, my three year old son started crying because he was having a bad dream. At 8:00 am, my wife went to the gym; I sat the kids in front of the TV so I could grab a quick shower, got them breakfast, and dressed them for our busy day.
I cleaned out the gutters on the house and answered another page by 11:00, at which time we put the kids down for an early nap. We cleaned house and I took the van in to get the winter tires put on while the kids slept. Beginning at 2:00 pm, we went to a succession of three children's birthday parties, finally finishing at 9:30 pm. We got home at 10:00, bathed the kids and got them to sleep by 11:00, then collapsed.
It wouldn't bother me, but this is nearly every day. I kind of miss cigarettes... then, at least I had an excuse to give myself a break once in a while.
Craziness (Score:1)
I used to run a lot, and have recently been remembering how less stressed I felt when I did. I'm waaaay out of the shape I used to be in, but I've forced myself to take 15 minutes to go run. I'm hoping taking a little time now will make me force myself to take more later on down the road.
Part of my problem is that I don't
Re:Craziness (Score:1)
I used to shoot competitively; I keep thinking that I should start shooting again. The great thing about shooting is that you must be calm in order to shoot well... you quickly learn to forget about everything else for the hour or so that you are shooting. I've been trying hard to get in shap
Lack of time (Score:1)
Re:Lack of time (Score:1)
I think it would work better for me to get up later and stay up later... that way, my wife would be off to work with the kids in tow, and I could lounge around the house. Letting my wife get the kids ready on her own would not promote domestic tranquility, however.
Maybe I should plan on sleeping in a different room once or twice
Two mistakes (Score:3, Insightful)
1. You got a job where you have to carry a pager.
2. You had kids.
In fact, these are two things I've worked hard to avoid so far, and will continue to do so in the future. Thus, I am able to go out on weekends and play Go, watch fansubbed anime downloaded off the net, read books, go to concerts, etc.
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Re:Two mistakes (Score:1)
There are some rare things in life which produce a net energy gain. Children are one.